Stepparenting can be one of the toughest situations to handle during both a divorce and when there are post decree modification issues. A Denver Divorce Mediator can assist you with this often difficult issues.
There are a number of great resources out there that offer advice on both good and bad techniques for step-parenting. Our resources page provides links to many helpful websites. One particularly good set books can be found at Coparent Eduction. In particular, here is a great website for anyone in a stepparenting situation. This includes the natural parent, step parent, or parent who is the third wheel. Site includes videos, tools, and a great dea of useful information. http://www.stepfamilies.info/stepfamilyprogram/
Additionally,do not forget the children. Most bookstores as well as Amazon.com offer numerous selections that can only help unravel the difficulties for children who must also wrestle with the confusion of a third or fourth parent figure who has now been thrown into their world. A good age appropriate book can help them too.